
FAQs
with "The Bondage Mistress"
I’ve never been a Mistress to boast: I never overstate what I have, nor offer a session that can’t be fulfilled. Although I will always consider clothing suggestions for me to wear, I cannot guarantee you will always get the outfit you desire. Due to knee and hip injuries, I will not totter around in heels of any sort.
Also, to be crystal clear, I need to tell you that there are some services I do not provide.
Naturally, I do not offer sex (although I’m sure you knew that anyway). I’m in my 40s not in my 20s, so will not go topless: at 32 gg… these babies need some support!
I do not provide:
Hard sports, choking, choke-outs, roman showers, foot/boot worship, wrestling, take-downs, ‘adult baby sessions’, seductive roleplay, body worship, Mistress stripping for you, stiletto heels or muscle worship.
I do not hire my premises and I don’t offer multi days, parties, couples or overnight stays.
Please note that I do not accept last minute requests and changes. You are not allowed to film or photograph the premises or during the session.
During the session I am very happy to work to a roleplay if this is important to your scene. I generally talk a lot, and I’m happy for you to verbally engage with me should you so wish. Similarly, I’m happy if you prefer to be a silent type. This works either way because the most important thing to me is that this your session becomes a mutually pleasurable experience.
Naturally, pleasure is subjective; perversely, you may be liking the fact that you don’t like what’s occurring… Oh we are such a complex set of individuals aren’t we? Let’s just say that I’m pretty good at reading people, and body language tells me a lot without asking. However, if you find that something isn’t working for you ( e.g. the strap is too tight, the room is too hot, etc) I do not stand on ‘high protocol’. Feel free to say something about it so I can make the necessary adjustments. None of these things are taken as a criticism.
Rest assured, should you require a dominant humiliatrix, a kind caring nurse, an abrupt matron, a controlling bitch, or just me as my usual happy, cheery, chatty self then all of those desires work for me. Just don’t be afraid to mention something that would improve your session. I do not consider this to be “topping from the bottom”. It doesn’t cause me an issue if you feel you need to move position, want a different hood, or for whatever the circumstances, you would like something to change. Playing to me isn’t a separate entity, it’s who I am and it’s very easy for me to drop in and out of a role, or simply plan your demise…with you.
Even before Coronavirus and PPE became such a hotly debated topic, I was always ‘over the top’ when it comes to protecting my – and your – health through sterilisation practices, cleaning protocols and exceptionally thorough hygiene methods.
My laboratory uses hospital sterilisation products, sporicidal surface cleaning wipes and sprays, submergible instrument sterilisation fluids, alcohol for hand disinfection and, throughout the session , I always wear latex gloves, often doubled , depending on the form of play in which I’m engaging.
I’m lucky to know a number of top-level medical professional from whom I seek advice whenever that is needed. I am not medically trained, but that does not mean I’m not medically informed. You get the same assurance any product can give, 99.9 per cent. These things are not cheap, but are essential, and must never be skimped on.
* Turn up on time: simple, effective, and yet so many people fall at this first hurdle.
* Have your money ready before you come along. If you’re paying by card that’s fine; otherwise have your tribute in an envelope – and check it please. This saves embarrassment at the start.
* Pay in local currency…. Unless we have a prior arrangement that you can pay in a different currency.
* No… I don’t take Amazon gift vouchers or the like as payment!
* Be clean. You’re welcome to shower at the start of the session, it sounds obvious but … To help with this you may arrive 5 mins before the session is due to start (Not half an hour before… and not late as I work to a strict schedule) ‘Yes’, I understand there may be traffic….the dog ate your directions blah blah… but I do expect you to be punctual.
There is no right answer to this as, let’s be honest, time flies when you’re having fun. I have changed my business model in regard to working hours; therefore there are less slots available and my preference is for appts of two hours and longer. I do not offer 1 hour session.
Yes you may. I will always consider your requests… but they are not always guaranteed.
Requests must be made in advance and not on the day as I need time to prepare.
Webcam/Phonechats/WhatsApp appointments.
You can arrange a private and dedicated webcam chat with me. It just needs you to contact me to pre-book and pay.
I need you to be clear about your needs when making your booking, and reliable in coming to see me. I run my own business as a business ought to be run, which means I am not a flake! I will answer your emails and I will be clear-headed, punctual, organised, on the ball, healthy, sober, and drug free for your session. (You would think this is an obvious point… but it needs to be stated).
Naturally, my place is immaculately clean; I have a professional cleaner daily because it’s not a job I want to be doing myself, and I have a P.A (more than one, in fact) to ensure that I never need to be answering calls during our time together. Now because I’m professional in such ways, it’s only natural that I expect you to be like that too.
That means that all bookings require an email with the appropriate information. I print your email list beforehand to guide your session – but ALWAYS shred it immediately afterwards.
Ideally, please include in your email:
Email header: (your preferred time, date and length of required appointment)
Email body: I need a flavour of your kinks, four to five fetish services that appeal to you. I do not need a full-length novel, or script, or a critique of previous sessions. Hard limits, and medical conditions, can also be included along with alternative dates of session in case your first choice isn’t available.
(optional) Image: if you feel an image can better describes what you are seeking then please paste it into the body of your email, rather than as an attachment.
I will always reply – so IF YOU DON’T GET A REPLY ON THE SAME DAY YOUR MAIL HAS NOT ARRIVED.
I’m always happy to receive feedback should you wish to give it. This is an ideal way to examine what worked for you, what areas you want to expand upon in the future, or possibly highlight any areas that didn’t quite hit the spot. Don’t worry, I’m not so precious that I take this as criticism! After all, gaining maximum impact in our play requires us to be on the same page.
Payments can be made via card, bank transfer (in advance) or cash. I do charge a £5 surcharge for all cards (and £15 for Amex).
If you’re unsure about what details to give me then EMAIL ME
I will always reply – so IF YOU DON’T GET A REPLY ON THE SAME DAY YOUR MAIL HAS NOT ARRIVED.
Mistress Miranda "The Bondage Mistress"
Pro-domme in Latex Medical, Bondage, Colonic, Breath, Rubber,
The hidden recesses of your mind translated to real time games
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